Judgment
Who are you to judge me? Do I live up to society? Do I live up to your standards?
Do you know me? When you see me, do you assume to know how I think? If you look at me and judge, shame on you. Shame on all who assume to know how it is to live in another life. We all pass judgement. We all assume to know.
I wonder…
Who is to say what normal is?
To me, normal is a person who thinks about others and displays generosity and empathy towards them. Is free to live the way they chose. Who believes in God and Life as beauty. Someone who does not let society dictate how they feel. Normal to me is quiet, loving and willing to learn, open minded and simple. Has morals and is not afraid of Life. Idealistic yes, but of course.
I say that is normal…but that is me. How can I pass judgement on people when I do not let them pass judgement on me?
I am sure that we all think about others as being different, there is no such thing as uniformity in people and thoughts. That is what makes life wonderful, we can spend eternity learning from one another. Why spend that time passing judgments that are created by a society who shows no mercy…We are trapped by our “ideals”. The lust and envy our society has filtered in our minds.
Why do people judge? Are we God? Only He can judge. How would you feel to have your inadequacies brought forth for others to ridicule? Do you not suffer the shame of unaccomplished dreams on some level? How does that feel? Now amplify that feeling towards all who are different. We share the same feelings, cry the same tears and breath the same air of relief at the days end for the day is over. I believe no one can be content in their lives…there is always the desire for something more…
To desire something more is natural. Life is so much more. Do not pass judgments on those who are different. We are all connected by a common thread. We are all connected on so many more levels than we can imagine. Do not judge others until you can accept judgment upon yourself.
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Judgment is the ugliest of things. I would rather be whipped and beaten than judged.
Sometimes judgement is an ugly thing but its a pity that human usually form some kind of first impression even without knowing the person well.
I used to date this person that looks very different because of his skin disease. Some people think he is weird because of that or have this judging looks at times. However, he is one of the most beautiful and lovable person once you know him.
I guess the challenge is to look closer into someone.
Indeed berecah you are correct...I just keep wondering why, with all the diversity in this world we keep wandering and not observing...this was something I posted to branch out...I feel strongly about Judgement and try to repress my sometimes strong desire...
Judgement is indeed ugly.
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